Many couples come to counseling because they want to communicate better. Over the years, couples inadvertently develop patterns of communication that are no longer working, or never worked in the first place!
I love working with couples and helping them discover ways their communication is failing and how to improve it. I want to teach you how to listen to your partner and finds ways to understand each other. I’d like you to better understand your partner’s triggers and how to help (not hurt) each other. Making your partner a better person, makes your relationship better which benefits you in the long run!
It’s natural for couples to go through patterns of change in their relationships. Just because your relationship is different, doesn’t mean it is over. You can rediscover and reconnect with each other and remember why you fell in love in the first place.
If your partner is unable or unwilling to come to counseling with you, I can help you explore your reactions and responses within your communication patterns and help find areas for change. When you change yourself, the relationship changes too.